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SEX IN THE BEDROOM & HOW TO MAKE IT HOT
It’s not just for couples wanting to spice up their sex lives – anyone with a heartbeat and sex drive has some kind of fantasy they wish they could act out.
Here are a list of the more common ones: (Most you can find at POHINC.com)
• Boss and Employee. How bad do you want that promotion? Everyone has some sort of suit or business attire in their closet, so it’s a great one for beginners.
• Doctor or Nurse. A thorough physical is in order. We want you to be healthy, after all. Toss on a sexy uniform, add a pair of gloves, and tell them to bend over.
• Dom, Sub, or Switch. It’s all about the thrill and/or release of power exchange and the respect and trust that are the cornerstones of BDSM. If you’re new to the game, all you need is something to tie your partner up with. Don’t forget your safety word.
• Fireman/woman. There are plenty of clichés like, “I’ll put out that fire” but honestly, who hasn’t drooled over one of those calendars?
• Hitchhiker. Similar to the stranger fantasy, but you need a car. Pretend to pick them up on the side of the road. A skirt is recommended for easy navigation. • Hooker, or Call girl. Dressing up in some slutty clothing and taking your partner back to your house for a few hours of ... whatever you want. Don't forget to pay them.
• Movie or Book Character. The possibilities are endless. From getting caught by a Hogwarts teacher to being Mr. Darcy’s mistress.
• Pirates. They either involve a “captive” who is noticed by the captain or the rugged swashbuckler who saves the maiden/man in distress. There is a mountain of nautical themed romance books out there if you need help.
• Police officer. Whether the officer breaks out those handcuffs or the criminal overpowers them and uses his own Billy Club, anything goes. There is also the variation of prison guard and inmate.
• Porn Star. It can be anything from reenacting your favorite naughty movie or just filming your own. Location possibilities are endless.
• Repairman/woman. Someone comes over to fix that squeaky bed. Another good one for beginners.
• Secret agent. 007 or Nikita, tailored suits and form fitting black attire. World domination plans and steamy interludes. What’s not to like? • Hollywood Star and Fan/Stalker. That starlight beauty or handsome film god finally takes notice of you.
• Servant/maid/butler. They’re supposed to be cleaning, but damn, they’re just so dirty. Plus, costumes are super easy to get.
• Sports Star and Fan. Similar to the Hollywood star one. Just exchange the Oscar’s attire for a sport’s jersey. There is also another variation of Rock Star and Groupie.
• Strangers at a bar. You lock eyes over your happy hour cocktail. The attraction is enough to make you want to skip to the hotel and go to the nearest bathroom, closet, or empty room.
• Stripper. If you’re secure in your sultry dancing skills, make sure your partner has a fist full of bills to put in that G-string.
• Superhero. It might have been superman at some point, but Chris Hemsworth made Thor sexy as fuck. Or you could go Spiderman for flexibility and the desire for younger men.
•Teacher and Student. Probably in the top 10 of most fantasies (for both men and women) “I need straight A’s to get that scholarship. Please, I’ll do anything.” *unzips pants. Fantasy to Reality
For most people, the desires just stay in their heads – mostly because they are too nervous or embarrassed to even broach the subject with their significant other. Maybe it’s because your partner seems very vanilla, and anything past the missionary with dimmed lights will send them running for the hills.
Or perhaps you think it’s just too “weird”. Newsflash – everyone feels like that. We all have a deep seeded fear of being ridiculed and rejected. Also, not everyone has established that line of communication early on in their relationships.
A “No” isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes, they just won’t be into trying it. But they should be into seeing you happy, so there might be another version or fantasy they can get into. Communication and compromise is key.
Pursue your own happiness!
From the kinky team of P.O.H. Pursuit of Happiness…….xoxo